Same here, I just call all those shows (law and order, csi, criminal minds etc) murder porn. She hates that.I'm a reader while my wife watches show on how to kill me and get away with it (Snapped and etc).

Same here, I just call all those shows (law and order, csi, criminal minds etc) murder porn. She hates that.I'm a reader while my wife watches show on how to kill me and get away with it (Snapped and etc).
Haha. I took her to the sushi place on our anniversary as a surprise - of course she drove. We agreed to do nothing since I was out of commission, but I made reservations a few weeks in advance just in case I was at a point where I could sit up long enough for a sit down meal. And it worked out perfectly. She was expecting nothing, I sent her a text during the day and said dont make any plans for tonight…I think she just assumed this was a reminder we were to do nothing, then about 5 I said “we should get into some better cloths And open some bubbly”. then I spilled the plan. It was a fun night for sure. She was not expecting it.Has your girlfriend driven to your date night at the sushi joint?
OMG! I am so gonna start using this.Same here, I just call all those shows (law and order, csi, criminal minds etc) murder porn. She hates that.![]()
Truth be told…i kinda like under porn…But I burned out on it and now I’m trying to only watch documentaries. It’s enlightening but many are kinda sad because they end up being about how companies are destroying the earth, lying about it, then not much is done to fix it. But at least its real.Same here, I just call all those shows (law and order, csi, criminal minds etc) murder porn. She hates that.![]()
Glad to hear you're on the mend slowly but surely.Today is cast removal day! SO STOKED. Then walking boot, then rehab. its nice to have a change in the process and Im thinkin I can drive barefoot and then put on The boot at my destination. Im going for that. Gotta get out of here and get solo time for us both.
I had my shoulder surgery on 02/22/22.
It was much worse then they thought from the MRI.
360° tear of the glenoid superior labrum, that had to be basically completely removed.
So now my shoulder socket has no capsule holding it all firmly together... Yay!
Cartilage inside the socket was moderately tore up, clean it all up and smooth it out.
Bicep was barely hanging on to what was left of the labrum, they had to detach it, drill a hole in the humerus, suture up the end of the bicep and get it into the hole and then screw it into place.
If it tears loose I'm F&!#ed, they can't redo it.
This is the most serious thing they found and procedure performed.
I'll be months of near ZERO bicep use to avoid tearing it while it heals.
Debrided 7mm of bone spur and reshaped that area of bone.
Monday 03/04 was my two week post-op, started physical therapy.
Monday the 04/04 was my six week post-op checkup, finally got taken out of the sling.
Six (6) weeks in a sling, arm strapped in place sucked!
Trying to sleep, HA! Only when exhausted and then for 3-4 hours before waking in pain... Drugs help a little but not completely.
Doc said to start letting my arm move around, natural movement, no more than five pounds tolerance for my shoulder, floor to shoulder height, nothing above my head.
Use of bicep? Doc said I can lift a coffee cup and use a fork/spoon, no more than that.
Scheduled six more weeks of physical therapy and another post-op.
No promises, no prognosis, wait and see.
Learned real quick to wipe my fat butt with my left hand.
My wife still has to help me shower.
Am I having fun yet?
WOW none of this is any fun at all. Your shoulder sounds bad. I had a minor shoulder surgery a while back. It was not much.I had my shoulder surgery on 02/22/22.
It was much worse then they thought from the MRI.
360° tear of the glenoid superior labrum, that had to be basically completely removed.
So now my shoulder socket has no capsule holding it all firmly together... Yay!
Cartilage inside the socket was moderately tore up, clean it all up and smooth it out.
Bicep was barely hanging on to what was left of the labrum, they had to detach it, drill a hole in the humerus, suture up the end of the bicep and get it into the hole and then screw it into place.
If it tears loose I'm F&!#ed, they can't redo it.
This is the most serious thing they found and procedure performed.
I'll be months of near ZERO bicep use to avoid tearing it while it heals.
Debrided 7mm of bone spur and reshaped that area of bone.
Monday 03/04 was my two week post-op, started physical therapy.
Monday the 04/04 was my six week post-op checkup, finally got taken out of the sling.
Six (6) weeks in a sling, arm strapped in place sucked!
Trying to sleep, HA! Only when exhausted and then for 3-4 hours before waking in pain... Drugs help a little but not completely.
Doc said to start letting my arm move around, natural movement, no more than five pounds tolerance for my shoulder, floor to shoulder height, nothing above my head.
Use of bicep? Doc said I can lift a coffee cup and use a fork/spoon, no more than that.
Scheduled six more weeks of physical therapy and another post-op.
No promises, no prognosis, wait and see.
Learned real quick to wipe my fat butt with my left hand.
My wife still has to help me shower.
Am I having fun yet?
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Miss Linda is addicted to murder porn, too. I might have to start watching some myself, just to survive.Same here, I just call all those shows (law and order, csi, criminal minds etc) murder porn. She hates that.![]()
Man, that really sucks.I had my shoulder surgery on 02/22/22.
It was much worse then they thought from the MRI.
360° tear of the glenoid superior labrum, that had to be basically completely removed.
So now my shoulder socket has no capsule holding it all firmly together... Yay!
Cartilage inside the socket was moderately tore up, clean it all up and smooth it out.
Bicep was barely hanging on to what was left of the labrum, they had to detach it, drill a hole in the humerus, suture up the end of the bicep and get it into the hole and then screw it into place.
If it tears loose I'm F&!#ed, they can't redo it.
This is the most serious thing they found and procedure performed.
I'll be months of near ZERO bicep use to avoid tearing it while it heals.
Debrided 7mm of bone spur and reshaped that area of bone.
Monday 03/04 was my two week post-op, started physical therapy.
Monday the 04/04 was my six week post-op checkup, finally got taken out of the sling.
Six (6) weeks in a sling, arm strapped in place sucked!
Trying to sleep, HA! Only when exhausted and then for 3-4 hours before waking in pain... Drugs help a little but not completely.
Doc said to start letting my arm move around, natural movement, no more than five pounds tolerance for my shoulder, floor to shoulder height, nothing above my head.
Use of bicep? Doc said I can lift a coffee cup and use a fork/spoon, no more than that.
Scheduled six more weeks of physical therapy and another post-op.
No promises, no prognosis, wait and see.
Learned real quick to wipe my fat butt with my left hand.
My wife still has to help me shower.
Am I having fun yet?
View attachment 628340
Now that's GREAT news!!Update: PT released me from the boot and crutches. got the go ahead to work it 5X a day with my PT exercises and I can use leg machines at the gym. So long as there is no pain. Soreness will be lasting a while, but thats not a big deal he says. taking it slow tho. walked three houses down the street and back and that felt like a big walk :( I think it will come back fairly quick.
Holy s**t man. that sounds rough. I remember your post of the accident. looked awful.So Monday she's amputating it--believe me, I sure won't miss it.