Don't forget to send a PM...

Discussion in 'Messages for All Guests and Members' started by forluvofsmoke, Nov 14, 2011.

  1. forluvofsmoke

    forluvofsmoke Smoking Guru OTBS Member

    ...if you don't get a response to a direct question (in a reasonable amount of time) to another member who has posted on a thread. Or, if you want that member's opinion or advice in specific, as well as just to "chew the fat" and "shoot the breeze".

    I find it can be difficult most days to keep up with activity on the forums, as the SMF member count and active threads has grown by leaps and bounds very quickly. When I check My Profile page, I will see that there are unviewed posts in threads that I was active in, however, if it is a thread that I have not posted in for a few weeks or more, that thread will be way down the list, depending on how much I have been posting. If I don't click on the MORE button enough times and scroll to the bottom, then it simply will not show up, and unless I happen to catch it on the New Posts page, I will not know about it at all.

    I'm sure I'm not the only member who is missing posts that he/she would like to view due to these situationss, so, if you don't get a response, here are the easiest ways to connect with that individual:

    1) while viewing the thread page, just hover your cursor over the member's name on their last post, right click and select veiw profile, then click Open in New Tab, then, directly under their avatar picture, just left click on Send Private Message;

    2) from the Users Currently Online or Who's Online  page, just hover over the user name and right click on Send PM, select and click Open to a New Tab;

    3) from the New Message page, if you know part or all of the user name, enter a few characters of the user name who you wish to contact. Auto-complete will list some choices of actual member names which to correlate to what you typed. You can pick from the list, or enter another character or two if the list is too long to easily find/indentify the correct name.

    Tips on tabs: I prefer to open most everything into a new tab just so I don't have to wait for a reload of the page I was on if I click the Go Back button on the browser header. This saves tons of time and data transfer when you are viewing one thread, replying to a another thread, copying/pasting to embed a link insertion, reading/replying to a PM and viewing your profile page for activity updates all at the same time. You can run multiple tabs and switch back and forth between them as you wish, being limited only by your computer's capabilities with memory capacity, and certain web browsers/versions.

    As many of us get more and more involved with multiple threads, sending a PM to get someone's attention is the best choice, IMO.

    Also, don't feel like you're bugging someone by sending a PM. I personally enjoy the one on one conversations just as much as on the open forums, but if appropriate, I prefer to keep discussions that can benefit others in the open...just me, then it doesn't need to be repeated later,unless someone missed the discussion. If the topic is something that someone wishes to remain off the forums, then I will adhere to their wish. For those with slower internet connections, it may take a bit to load their messages page and open the new message, but you will have their attention.

    I have my account preferences set up for instant notification of new PMs, so as soon as one is sent and the next time I go active on a SMF page, I get a pop-up. I can immediately cancel the pop-up and open my messages in a new tab from the messages button on top right or from my bookmarks. While it's loading, I can go back to what I was doing for a minute until the page is ready. Just one of many multi-tasking tricks to save time while I'm visiting all you fine folks, and it helps so I don't get spread too thin for too long at a time, 'cause I want to take in all I can and help who ever I can while I'm here.

    Hope I wasn't too long-winded, but I felt the need for it to be said.

    Stay safe, eat well and keep your smokers warm and happy, my friends!

    Last edited: Nov 14, 2011
  2. raptor700

    raptor700 Master of the Pit OTBS Member

    Great post Eric, I'm sure this will help lots of members [​IMG]
  3. Great tips.
  4. oldschoolbbq

    oldschoolbbq Smoking Guru OTBS Member

    If I may, there are lots of different ways to Smoke your meat(fuels),if you need help with the fuel and how to control it,we can help.

    Don't be ashmed of your unknowing, we all strated there and have applied knowledge found here to improve our Hobby.

    some of us stay up at night and will be able to help or point you in the right direction[​IMG]

    Have fun and...
  5. venture

    venture Smoking Guru OTBS Member

    Most of this info is available using the search tool.  Even knowing the names of people involved with an old thread, the search tool, while pretty good, can leave you wading through a lot of threads.

    Everybody I have PM'ed on this site have been very helpful in saving me time.  While not the first choice, if you are struggling to find something?  I would say use the PM.  If there is a person who has a problem with that,  maybe they don't belong .......   Oh well!

    Good luck and good smoking.
  6. pineywoods

    pineywoods Smoking Guru Staff Member Administrator Group Lead SMF Premier Member

  7. chef jimmyj

    chef jimmyj Smoking Guru Staff Member Moderator Group Lead OTBS Member

    Thanks for this post...I am concerned about getting back to threads I have posted in to answer peoples questions. I feel bad when I come across a question that needed an answer ASAP and it's a now a week later...JJ
  8. scarbelly

    scarbelly Smoking Guru OTBS Member

    I am one of those guilty of suggesting a search. The reason I always suggest the search first is that if they do a search, it can give the person more than one answer. It can broaden  the answer base tremendously. If at that point you still have a question, please PM any of us. We are here to help.  
  9. venture

    venture Smoking Guru OTBS Member

    Gary, I have often referred people to the search tool.  Then I feel guilty for not finding the thread and just giving it to them like I am supposed to.

    Using the search tool is a good thing. When it gets too cumbersome, PM almost any one of us.  I am confident that most of us will either give the answer directly or at least try to point people in the right direction.

    Those of us on the forum have some saved stuff or might remember a post well enough to find it easier than starting from scratch.

    I don't mind the PM's.  If I, or anyone here can help you, I promise you will rarely not feel welcome!

    Good luck and good smoking.
  10. forluvofsmoke

    forluvofsmoke Smoking Guru OTBS Member


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