Debi, that sounds like something my wife would do. I have to be honest, I was raised here in Philly, after I got out of the service ( many, many, years ago) I just never came back here.I remember when my girlfriend in TX.told me we were going to a BBQ. I was pretty jazzed about it.But it was like nothing I had ever seen. 3 days before the week end they started getting ready. We went shopping for all kinds of thingsI never heard of. Then on Thurs. they started rubbing this and soaking that. I was really amazed. Then came Sat. now were getting ready to light the fire. Seeing how I was the big man, it was my job to light the fire. This is where my biggest mistake happen.... "Hey you guy's got any lighter fluid" It wasn't so much I asked for lighter fluid that got me that "where in the heck you from"look, it was the ""you guys" that did me in. But once I started eating real BBQ I was hooked. That's when "Ya'll, reckon so, fixin to, up the road a piece" became words I use now.