Hey, it's only been a couple of years since I added anything to this thread! :)
I've been busy, and may still not get this all set up too soon, but:
Having set up a security camera system here, I've been through a lot of learning and work with that. And part of that lead me down the path of setting up my own VPN running on my router. The idea is to NEVER let any of these cheap security cameras communicate directly with the internet because most have back doors, and all of them are pretty easy to hack, so they're big targets for hackers. Once you give a camera access to your network, and also allow it to have access to the internet, you've set up a "man on the inside" that can spy on all of your network traffic and send whatever it wants to its masters (usually in China).
Anyhow, the upshot of having my own VPN running on my system is that my wife and I can open a secure tunnel to our home network from anywhere, and once that's "switched on", we can access our home network as if we were right there logged into that network. That opens up a lot of possibilities, and it also allows us to surf or shop online even if we're on a public network because all of our traffic is encrypted with 2048bit encryption both ways.
This is NOT the same as using a VPN service. It's our own VPN, running on our router. (There are other ways to do it, as well, but this was easy).
VPN services are also very handy, but for accessing gadgets on our home network remotely, having our own VPN is the way to achieve that goal securely, with no port forwarding, or other serious security issues.
I still need to modify the MES, but I'm also looking at getting a larger smoker as the starting point for these modifications. Someday I may actually get around to doing some of this! :)